Lil: How would me canceling my trip be relevant to making her "whole" again?
Well, to any normal person, it wouldn't. But in her mind it would constitute penance, giving up something that is selfish fun because you fcuked up, making it up to her by taking the $$ you were going to use on the trip to buy her something-- who knows?
But be prepared for her to link the Violation with the Selfish Trip.
You are absolutely NOT a rapist, sex maniac, violator, or anything like it!!!
