When to move back in together?

[saffie]

I totally agree that first and second choice can change. I guess what I am trying to say is that if you want to have more chance of it working then tg's H needs to see that tgis in her own right the package that he wants to be with. If he doesn't realise that then he is just going to keep revolving and looking for a better option. A bit of time taken now could save a lot of heartache in the future. It could also save the children from becoming more confused.

Saffie