You're right Dom, it would be drama to get a certified letter-kinda like legal separation papers and I don't want to go there three weeks after separating.
Today I talked to a legal expert, over the phone (thank God I do have a legal plan) and he told me I am liable for the bill since it's in my name. Legally I can sue for half the bill but this would have to be part of divorce proceedings. That's not going to help me now.
It is kind of scary to go over to his dad's house-he may or may not be there. I think I'd have to write out a "script" so I can keep focused. Last Friday I his paycheck came in the mail-I'm surprised he hasn't called or come over to pick it up. We don't have a joint account so I can't deposit it into my account and I don't think I can hold it for "ransom" (more drama). I don't know if showing up will do anything but it "feels" better than doing nothing or more of the same (emails, voicemails, waiting).
The task ahead of you is never as great as the Power behind you ~ unknown
