Some days, it does. Some days I think to myself, "she doesn't have sex with me, she seems to barely tolerate me at times, and, even when things are relatively good between us, they can head south in an instant with just the wrong comment by me, or by me forgetting something I said I'd do, or whatever." But there are also days when I am generally feeling fortunate to be married to her, in spite of everything. And every once in a while there are days when things seem wonderful. It's been a while, though. Hairdog
HD, I know that you love this person but really, seriously consider what she's accusing you of. This ISN'T something to take lightly. Unlike some, I am very hesitant the minute someone mentions anything like "spousal rape". This is far from normal. Very far. You should take an outside look at this. What would you yourself give for advice to someone who came to you and said that his wife equates touching her without her very, very express permission as rape. Would you really advise him to stay around her without a witness present? How many man are put away for this? Is it a large number? How many men are "loving" and get hurt by their off balance wives based on unbiased accusations? I would strongly suggest that if she doesn't see someone about this soon that you get away from this person. It is dangerous for your personal liberty to remain with someone who equates touch from their spouse with rape. If I was you, what would you recommend?
