Aud, really needed your words, for my H is the male version of PS's wife, there but not really fully there. Just had an exchange of txt msgs (amazing, on the phone we were getting at each other but we are much more civil we write to each other!) and he confessed to me that he feels our connection has been totally crushed, that he's almost hopeless. Yes, he's going to a T, and he's home, but he still feels terribly miserable. Breaks my heart to see him in this state, I honestly forget that he is hurting so and that he feels so lost, that the 2 T sessions are just the beginning of a long recovery and that I can n't expect my H back just yet.
Patience.
Not the storm on the cup of water I raised today about something that now seems insignificant and which just led him to believe that we are beyond help.
People, choose your battles.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
