update from talk with friend about the difference between males/females WAS/LBS: the one thing she did say, and this is not across the board, of course, but generally many women will use sex for power, while men will see it/use it merely for pleasure. obviously this is not true for every person, but it does often trend that way. so the reason a WAH might be more inclined to have sex with a female lbs is because it is about pleasure, and that a female lbs might be more inclined to have sex with a wah because they might see it as a way to gain power. of course, the reality is, the wah is just getting pleasure, not sacrificing power or changing in any way. as for a WAW, they already feel like they have power, so no need for sex with the male LBS.
I thought that was interesting. we talked about my own situation. I think she is disappointed that I went that route, but she understood it and made me promise I would careful and really understand my motivations and also understand that his may not be what I wish they were (no matter how blase I may sound about it). she also recommended that I have the conversation with H today about it..make it clear to him that I understand this was just a f-buddy moment, that I do not think there is more to it for him or for myself.
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