Hi EM - I'm so glad to see you are in piecing. Looks like there is still a lot of work ahead, but Ret sounds like it can really help with that.
I don't understand the sex thing either, except that you have had problems since you were married. I don't think it really has to do with the OW. For some men I think it does have to do with feeling close and connected. I know that it isn't that way for all men, but I believe that it is for my H. I know that your week-end at Ret will do both of you a lot of good.
Sounds like a lot of positives and with help, you will get through this.
Good Luck.
Faith
H 48 W 57 M 15 yrs T 18 yrs No children EA 1/12/06 Moved out 3/10/07 & 8/16/07 Back on 5/18/07 2nd Thread