Hi EM - I'm so glad to see you are in piecing. Looks like there is still a lot of work ahead, but Ret sounds like it can really help with that.

I don't understand the sex thing either, except that you have had problems since you were married. I don't think it really has to do with the OW. For some men I think it does have to do with feeling close and connected. I know that it isn't that way for all men, but I believe that it is for my H. I know that your week-end at Ret will do both of you a lot of good.

Sounds like a lot of positives and with help, you will get through this.

Good Luck.

Faith


H 48
W 57
M 15 yrs
T 18 yrs
No children
EA 1/12/06
Moved out 3/10/07 & 8/16/07
Back on 5/18/07
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