your H might need time to process his anger. Listen, the more you cling to him the more he'll be convinced he has to go. Accept, and tell him that you understand he needs space, that YOU also need space to think... and see what happens.
In "tough Love" by JB Dobson they had a figure of 2 hands, one hand is holding desperatly onto the other and the 2nd hand is trying to get away, next, the first hand moves away for a bit and the first hand realizes he's free and that maybe that's not what he really wanted.
Doing all the giving will just exaust you. Yes, you should change and do 180s if you accept that you've done wrong. But also remember you are making these changes for YOURself and not only to please him.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
