Congrats on your anniversary, AND on your sex life. Three times a month is HARDLY what I'd called starved, that's abundance from where I'm sitting. I'd give my left nut for sex three times a month. SHEESH, try to see the blessing in what you have??
If you need more organsms then buy a vibrator. No kidding, pick up a toy. Don't screw up what you currently have by adding pressure. It CAN get worse, very, very, very worse.
I like how you've identified you're need for intimacy. Work on that, definately. Honesty, and unconditional love. Work on being closer friends, do fun things, get a little wild with him and let go of the neediness.
God Bless,
COG
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