PS> I have read a book "Hope for the Separated" by Gary Chapman that has been a great help to me and would recommend it to others; it has taken the "panic" from me and helped me work on myself.
I liked it too. Actually, that was the book that gave me the hope to go out and look for ways to repair my M which is what led me here. It might be a little God heavy for some but don't let that get in the way. I was driving 7 hours to visit some family about 4 weeks ago and listened to the book on CD recording of this. Twice. And another time later. I just recently (today) figured out that he's the same guy that wrote the 5 love languages book, the other non-DB book I have read and really like.
Me: 32 in OH Wife: 29 in MD Married: 4 years No kids Seperated 14 months