Ahhhhhh, Cobra, I think we're talking about different things.
I wasn't talking about trying to use humor to lighten the general mood up in hopes of then getting some. I was talking about actually coming out and asking for sex, hugs, whatever in a lighthearted joking "whatever, dude" way as opposed to a passionately intense "my heart will be broken and/or I'll be pissy for several hours if you reject me" vibe.
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