I'm going to go with the book and see what it can do for me. Things seem so close to the brink of heading down the right path, I just have to figure out how to make the right first move. What seems to be the sitch is W has come to the closest she can figure to go, looks down the path, but is still figuring out if that's what she wants for sure. Like you say BeingMe, I have to be the greener grass.
This week is going to be tough, W got some major things ahead of her. She can handle it, but I can see how she is apprehensive also. Perhaps it is time for a note of love, encouragement, support. Show her where the real love is.