Sorry hon to see you here.....we all know the pain you are feeling...and it does so suck!!!
You have found a great place in coming here...lots of love and support...I would never be where I am today with out the help of my friends here on the board!!!
Many told me a year ago when I first came on...that my M didnt get where it was over night...and that it will take time for it to repair...and sweetie...we are the ones to do the work for now...but start on YOU for YOU!!! No garentees here..but we can be a better person for ourselves and those we love...
My H just told me that him and I both left the M emotionally, he was the one to first get the strenght to leave. ( I was distant, and totally dependant on him)....and not to mention controling. We are togher again (living together again sense Jan...6 months after the bomb)...
I am a living tesimony that there can be a second chance..but I had to work my @ss off...doing all the work of dbing...and then some...
Hang in there hon....get your pma, gal...and come here...remember you are not alone...we all know the pain you are having....
