My H has a habit of doing this, and I find it very passive-aggressive (psycho speak, but it really does apply). Although, considering where your D17 is right now, maybe your W was right?
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You are a good man FLTC. You've got a great heart, and a willing spirit. You are on the right track, but you are dealing with a sick person. It's time to give, to let go, and to teach her what love really means(and only use words if you have to).
I agree wholeheartedly with COG here.
Seems to me, your W had very high expectations of you (set you up for failure), and then kinda said .... see, you can't meet my needs. Also, seems to have rewritten history somewhat, which is classic MLC.
I love America (and, of course, my adopted country, Canada)! My daughter is married to an American serving in the US Air Force. He has also been to Iraq, and it changed him so much. He has become a true man, whereas before, he was still into gaming like when he was a teen, and didn't really take his role as a dad very seriously (I know, I know, I sound like a real MIL, but I actually really like my SIL, but he had his faults as did my D27). Even my D27 grew from her H being away ... she became more independent, and a stronger woman. I very much admire her as a person.
Take care of yourself!
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
