Lou,

On another forum, where most of the posters are LBW's, I hear of examples of selfish men. I hear W's say they did everything. She had the perfect M. She was the perfect W. A few of those statements might be true.

That statement can never be true. Those attitudes only perpetuate the negative dance and are why I think those boards are dangerous.

Sometimes I think, BB would do fine married to someone with double my income, double my spending level, if he were easy-going. Some guys with double my income, double my spending wouldn't be OK with some of the things BB likes to do, wants, or doesn't like to do.

Maybe, but I doubt it. All she will do is raise her sights to someone better off than her and complain why she doesn’t have as much as that person. Maybe you should take her on a trip to a really depressed area of the world, some third world country with REAL poverty. That is a real eye opener.


Cobra