I just had a pissy conversation with D11 who suddenly invoked the 5th when I asked where she and her Dad had been tonight.
That'll make you uncomfortable alright. Two things I don't like about it. First, seems pretty likely that they were doing something that you wouldn't exactly approve of or appreciate. But more importantly, it's not good for your D to be put in that position. I know it's normal to discuss life with each other. I'm not saying it's bad that you ask her what they're up to. Just not good for her to be in the middle if H is doing something you would'nt approve of. It would be nice if the two of you could communicate honestly, let each other know what the other is doing so D11 doesn't have to be in the middle. I realize that falls on your H's shoulders in this case so maybe it's time to have a little convo with him about it. So D11 does'nt feel inclined to have to cover for him.
Other than that I'm feeling like I'd like to see you go kick some ass. Tell your man he belongs to YOU, and you'll rip the eyes out of any OW that he checks in with. There's a time and place for everything and sometimes a little piss and vinegar might be appropriate.
God bless the struggle!
Love,
COG
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