Fearless in the EQ thread I was stating that the particular concepts that the author was claiming are "all we long for" were feminine concepts. In that feminine is identified with communion and the masculine identified with agency. The feminine is about together while masculine is about apart, the two are in constant flux in all of creation everything is a part and a whole. Yin and Yang. Emotions are a human experience actually a maybe a conscious experience of all "intelligent" life.

Nowhere did I say that men don't have emotions or that emotions are solely for girls.