chicki, last year I was away from my family for approx 5 months, no separation here but I moved from Texas for a job in MD and then was transfered to MO. To date, the W still says I walked out. What I need to do is go through my emails and see which one I sent to her specifically detailing the job and acceptance letter.
While I was away, I mostly stayed at home and didnt do too much GAL. I am independent, I dont ask the W to do anything for me and if she does then thats her choice. I proved to her already I can live alone and have done so. W cannot do this financially since she will be squeezing every penny she make. In contrast, I am ok financially.
When W and D moved her in December, I relocated all her household items which are still in storage since I have all my furniture and dont need her. W has a 1 bedroom full of furniture which sits in storage. We have a mirror of every piece of furniture she likes.
To get into details would require me to write all day.
See the W, Listen to the W, but dont Speak back to the W. Bridle your tongue...