Sounds like an MLC for your H. Maybe, as I am going to do go over and read threads under that premise, I am sure you will find hope. Also its not over until its over. I am sure he is lost and you should be respected for wanting to preserve your marriage. There are many others who have more experience and can give advice. I would be more than happy to answer questions you may have! Best of luck!
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!