Nomopo's Funk? Is that what this is?

[Dr.mom]

Nomo,

I lurk and follow your sitch. Very similar to mine, but no kids involved.

I am also at the same stage as you. Gone Dark, starting to see the light at the end of MY tunnel. And that is independent of whether my H comes back or not. I also think reconciliation could work ONLY if he came back, wanting to do some major re-hauling of his life and our marriage.

I seriously doubt that will ever really happen. And that thought no longer scares me.

Am also curious, like you, as to what this means. Have I detached? Should I ever go back? Time to walk off in a different direction by myself? Does this mean that it is probably better to go?

Riding this wave out, seeing where it goes.