I just got done reading a medical study that links men and bouts of depression with physical injury. They stated that most (80%) of men's midlife crisis, depression, mental illness comes some time after a major physical setback. It screws up their head.
My problems with H all started after he recovered from back surgery at the age of 35. It is like they realize they are mortal after all, and are actually going to die one day. Freaks them out.
Breath, set back, and do some writing.
We are all in this for the long haul. . . .
ME 40 HIM 48 Married one year. First for him Second for me Proud parents of a baby girl