I'm sorry to hear. Why do you think your H has completely detached? He still is planning on the MC and IC.
I hope you don't think it is unrepairable, work can always be done, but if it is that is what DB'ing is for, for you.
One other question, what would you like to see your H do to show he is sorry? I have to ask, since I have tried to talk to my WAW and apologize and everything is dismissed. She didn't believe it was sincere, but I had put a lot of thought and effort into it and it was rather emotional.
Keep a PMA going and we are here for ya. Hope you cheer up.