Fate has an evil and ironic way with me . . .

[saffie]

I am so sorry Pony. I want to tell your husband off for you.

I don't see why you have to acknowledge either of the two dates. If you feel you do have to then just acknowledge his birthday as you would any other FRIEND'S birthday. Even that is being generous as he isn't even treating you like that.

If he can be so cold don't acknowledge your anniversary UNLESS it makes you feel better - don't do it for him - at the moment he is not acting in a way that deserves your attention. You might yet get a bill from his practice.

I am so sorry that he is making this so painful for you. Were you on friendly terms with his staff before? If they have changed the way they are towards you does that mean anything?

It's all so hard.

Is your beagle going to be ok?

((((HUGS)))))

Saffie