morgan, you are right. If it continues without any other change going on around you (meaning, him breaking it off with OW, showing signs of wanting to come back), I can see how it would hurt us in the end. Have a good day today. Hope you and H have good interaction. And have no doubt that he still loves you, its just very buried, and it hurts them to get to it, since they have to dig past the guilt.
mk, I have been thinking about that too. I have seen on here the WAW allowing/initiating sex with the H, but they seem to be very clear about their intentions (meaning, "This doesn't change a thing"). But you are right, I wonder what that says about males and females, or are all WAS's programmed the same way?
