Well, this is the first time in a while since my H has has the kids for the weekend and it is always hard when they return b/c they are so excited to tell me where they went & it hurts to see how much fun they have w/ the OW and the "step family" thing.
How come h doesnt mind if the kids mention OW's name in my house but as soon as they left Friday he told the girls not to mention me? I guess it is so much easier to hurt the wife and continue doing so but oh no we cant hurt OW. My oldest D10 did say,but mommy I mentioned you just once. I told the girls I am and always will be their mommy therefore if they want to say something about mommy they can.
You guys remember the drama scene from friday well b/c of it H was running a little late(OW' time table). I knew she prolly had called him or was going to. D10 told me she called him alright as soon as they left the house and daddy was mad telling her "why is it you have to time me everytime?". I told you guys I knew this will start to get on him. She is choking him and he cant stand that. In one of our R talks I mention that to him, that if this is her NOW putting him on a leash you can imagine when u make it legal?
When they arrived I was ironing in my room w/ soft love songs playing on the CD player. I barely made eye contact w/ him as he asked if his dad had come over to fix the washer, which he did not. God, him & his dad are so alike. I could of worked all day but since his dad was coming I didnt. Oh well I got alot house work done.
Yesturday morning (h knew I was working & at work I keep my cell on silent) h calls twice & i didnt know. H left a texted saying your not answering you must be w/BF. I texted back wantign t know if he was dropping the girls off at noon like he said he was. I got off work & went to my moms and left the cell in the car. H called this time he left a voice message" what will he not let you answer the phone? I have a question to ask you cal me back". Ten minutes later I called him back and he was pissy. I told about me leaving him texted messages and he said he didnt get them b/c his message box says its full. This is when he told me his dad was coming over to look at the washer. He told me he dropping the kids"later". I tried to ask when but he hung up. I called him back & he says "what I dont have time for this nonsense?" I said I need to know what time your coming? and what time is your dad coming, I am not home right now.My dad will be there at two and if your not there he will not come back.You will have to get your BF to fix it. I said ok and hung up.
