So glad to hear from you my friend and know you are OK. I have been away from the forum to try to focus on rebuilding my life when I realised my H was truly heading down a different road. My life, too, is getting better - it has been a slow and painful process but I no longer want to go back to the person I was in the last years of my M. My ex is also struggling, but that is his issue now; I am there if he needs me, although for how long I don't know.
You were a true and trusted support to me throughout the worst months of my life and I am so grateful that you were there. I wish you all the happiness that you deserve - and I can see that you are going to be fine. I still think of you often and am glad to have another chance to thank you for all you did for me.