"Going Dark" - 101

[nephartiti]

I think it is doing something! There is regular contact instead of 1-2 weeks of nothing. That's a change in the right direction. He says you can do whatever, but his behavior shows that it bothers him. He's contradicting himself, which I interpret as confusion. Confusion means he's contemplating and thinking of things. Now you have his attention, show off your GAL and stay positive so he wants to be around you. Just keep playing it cool and don't act too interested and don't talk about R. If he brings it up, take it slow and be careful. Let him keep wondering about what's going on with you. I'm so excited for you. Hopefully this dark thing works for me too. It's only been 2 days with no contact. Hey, does sending a couple pics of the kids count a pursuing?