Wow, Heim, your W really sounds torn. Kiss on the lips? When was the last time that happened? She's clearly doing some serious flirting (as are you).
It sounds like your sitch is really positive right now, and I know you're not reading too much into anything. It's great to hear you say you're truly happy. I'm inspired.
Just think how great your legs are going to look after lugging all your stuff up four flights! Take care.