Really happy for ya! Now comes the fun stuff. Working through everything. Still have frustrating times. We can keep venting to each other. Take is slow.
W: 33 H: 37 SS: 14 S: 7 S: 3 married 08/09/97 Seperated 11/02 05/07 H moved back 8/26/07
Well I guess my wife never does much half way. She call me yesterday like she was suppose too so that I could come over and spend time with her and S. I got over to her place about a half hour later and she dropped a bomb with a question to our S.
W - "S" what do you think about having your dad come back and live with us ?
Our son didn't have an answer, he was to busy bouncing off walls to say anything. We had a wonderful evening, it was a very festive and happy mood by all. So yeah, I spent the night over at her place, and no we did not behave this time. I am going to start moving some clothes today and the rest of my stuff over the next couple weeks.
She has informed her entire family that we are getting back together, she must of been on the phone for 2 hours last night being all giddy telling her mom and sister, plus others. I have actually never seen her so happy since we got married, I am still shaking my head at these turn of events.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
I hear ya about your son. Mine were so happy when daddy started spending the night.
It is amazing how quickly things move when they decide they do want their family. Still need to take it slow. Prepare for your next rollercoaster ride. Which I will say so far is not nearly as rough as the first.
W: 33 H: 37 SS: 14 S: 7 S: 3 married 08/09/97 Seperated 11/02 05/07 H moved back 8/26/07
I'm so happy for you and your family. Your son sounds like a great kid. A little vacation sounds like a good idea. But I imagine staying home together will feel like a honeymoon, too. I agree with your wife. No point in beating around the bush. She didn't like your drinking. You stopped drinking. Why not get back together?
789, your post made me cry. it really did. I'm so happy for you. I agree with mk, maybe think about a honeymoon. take it easy...stay strong, enjoy life, and remember to keep up what you are doing. obviously its made a real difference in your relationship.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
