LOL voodoo. Who doesn't have caller ID? You do have a microwave and an answering machine right? We would always be that family on the block that got everything five years after it came out!
Donna, do NOT listen to that BMF (whatever that means?) best male friend? People say those things to see you get out of pain. No one should advocate for anyone to give up saving their marriage. Do not take that seriously. It is harsh but he is saying it out of respect for you but he should be praising you for your patience and fortitude and love. Remember the DR book says to not rally the troops because they will say that divorce is a solution but it does not solve the real issues. Friends need to be supportive of marriage once they know your stance or butt out or at least stay neutral. No one knows what it is like until they have been there. We have all been there with you.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."