If there is one message I would give to anyone reading this is to let go of your fear and just do whats right and whats going to help obtain your goal no matter what that goal is.
Thanks for this, CK. It's a huge struggle for me, at the moment, and this helps.
Originally Posted By: C_K
I honestly do not think that I could have fully embraced this way of thinking unless we separated and as It was said by GD I think this could have been a great gift from my W.
That's so hard to grasp, but I think you're right. I'm so afraid that when I tell H it's not okay with me that he live with us and look for another R, he'll leave. Of course he's already gone from me, so if it does happen, I hope to get my head around this, too.
It sounds like your S has helped, both you and your R. I think you handled your W's complaints about her living situation really well, and the party sounds lovely. Hope you're doing great.
