I believe many women are LD because they want the H to play the wooing game again. The HD woman's mind will operate in a different way and she will openly signal availability to others to try to tell her man that if he wants to keep her he'd better keep wooing her. In other words that the game he thought he'd won is still on.
IMO, these are both examples of avoidant or brutal fusion. When a HD woman actively tries to get action from her H that is clingy fusion when a LD woman tries to trade action for love or other stuff that is clingy fusion too. All dysfunctional. If the H is engaging in brutal withholding sexual fusion then the proper differentiated response is to put the monkey back in the cage for a time, clearly state the rules of the zoo and only as a last resort banish the H and open the zoo to new male sexual visitors.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
