I made a commit on my own post that I wondered if I could separate the emotion if I were to make love to my stbx ever again.

Someone rightly pointed out that it's a fantasy to believe I could do that. I agree and wouldn't go there. It's set yourself up for more misery IMO.

The WAS could probably separate all the emotion rather easily. I noticed in a lot of our situations that it always seems to be the WAH that will on occasion still ML to the LBS. It's rare you see a WAW doing it.

"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare."
-Mark Twain