Mark,

That was harsh. Please keep in mind that I've only been on this forum for one day. I skipped around the Divorce Remedy book, and I'm a little confused about the terminology, and sequence/timing of everything the book recommends. Although we all have a common desire (to reconcile with our spouses), our stories and personalities are unique.

I don't know why you assume that I haven't read this entire thread or want to create a blog. I came to this forum seeking advice, and I AM going to take your advice, okay? I need to print out all the posts, and study them when I have a few minutes to collect my thoughts.

Emotions are running high, and I'm still trying to survive this. I'm sure you were an emotional wreck the first time you logged onto this forum, too.

Please be patient, and let me get used to this new way of thinking/behaving.


So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.” - Matthew 19:6