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HI Mrs.H

My H left 15 mon ago and 16 days later filed for D. Now for some reason his L sent the paperwork to the court but did not have it processed. This is still a mystery.

2 wks ago now 15 mon later he assumed his L was talking to mine and working out this whole D... I swear he has NO brain.

So when he told d that I got upset. I asked him why he was discussing things like this with her and he said well they are. I said No they are not my L has not heard from yours or he would call me.
A wk later he had his L file the final paperwork.

Oh it gets better.. I sent him an email with the filing on grounds of cruelty copied to it and said.. "I thought you wanted to be fair and we would come to a settlement and what happened to the collaborative D you had to have?"
OMG
I opened a can of worms... he got all upset and emotional and then wanted to talk and I said NOPE.

He saw d on that sat. and almost broke down in the mall.

He emailed me and told me that he wanted to put it on hold so we can talk. Ok... so then I broke down and called him and he told me that he was angry when he filed and that he did not remember signing the papers.

Now he had his L dismiss the case with out prejudice so it is like on hold.. but not until after I was served which he said he stopped and his L claims her staff screwed up.
All to have him tell me lets talk Monday.

Ok he calls refuses to talk to me face to face. Only interested in what it is going to cost him for alimony that is it.

I have no idea what is going on with him right now I have not seen him in 2 wks and that was for like 5 min. As soon as I came in the house he had to go.

He has beem distant to me for 3 mon now. But tries every wkend to spend time with the kids again and is usually able to drop every thing for d if she calls him now.

I can only hope that I too can come back and say that mine called it off.
My L says that we are the oddest case he has had in a while.

I wonder how long it will take him to call me again..?