The sister comment wasn't him really talking. He was hurting and trying to justify what he had done.
I know what you mean, even though you know the sex didn't 'mean' anything, of course you (and him, trust me!) are thinking about it. I think your GAL has made you desirable, also standing up for yourself and drawing boundaries too.
atgo, I don't separate all emotions when we ML. Trust me. I love him, fully desire him, and miss our sex together. But I know its not a magic fix, does that make sense?
