Well, no need to answer my posts.
I got the cell bill and although my goal of him calling more often was fulfilled, H was calling OW as much or more.
I called up H, told him he neededn't bothering to contact me again, no obligations. I tolo him although I loved him for 25 yrs I am not now going to be a "friend", that I can't do "friends".
I said I would be nice, I would be honest but I will move on with my life.
He told me that he didn't call out of obligation, he called cuz he wanted to, that he wanted to talk to me and that he will still call me.
The connection went bad, end of conversation.

He calls this morning again...
H- How was the get together?
Me - Fun as always...why are you calling?
H- To see how things went.
Me- I can't do this anymore....blah blah blah
H - I understand. You can call me sometime then? OK?
Me - U still going to be here on granddaughters b'day?
H- Yes, 3 weeks right?
Me- Yes, I'll have any kind of paperwork/bills/ whatever ready for you then ok?
H- Now don't be that way. I dont' want anything.
Me -I'll see ya then. Bye

So he's got 3 weeks to think..not holding my breath.

Get this --OW is "family orientated" << too funny. Spends months in jail for drugs,got 3 kids (2-3 diff men),lives w/parents, bimbo and SHE'S family orientated? WHO'S FAMILY?? Mine...wants my H.
H use to be--maybe that's it, kids grown we're not as needy. Whatever.

Well , no more calls anyway.


H is OTR driver - 48
Me 49
married 24yrs
2 sons, 22/20
H going thru MLC