My MLC/WAW moved out a couple of months post-bomb.
There was no OP (although I spent a lot time spying since I thought that there had to be -- nope, but usually there is).
My W filed for divorce 6 months post-bomb. At this point the first of 4 touch and goes started.
I gave up at the 12 month mark and had gone dark for a couple of months. On the day of our final divorce hearing (13 months post-bomb), my W changed her mind.
At this point *I* was in love with someone else, but I felt that I had to do what I could to keep my family together.
This was just over 6 months ago. We have been living together and doing good ever since. Ironically, I was the one with "issues" when it came time to reconcile.