W phones me last night ( very rare ). Wanted to tell me D was upset because I had told her off about something , went on to say that D will come and live with her . I said I wont stop her. W crying by now went on to tell me how she hates living where she is , how she thought it would be different. She cant come home because it would be for the wrong reasons and then went on to tell me that I should move out so she could come home . I said virtualy nothing just , " That must be hard " and other small validating statements , I stayed silent on her last point however.
So she was unhappy at home so decided to move out because that would mean she can be happy ( and she was happy moving into her apartment) , now surprise surprise she is not happy still , so I guess the next move will be to find a better place and have D move in with her because she is sure that would make her happy.
Somehow I doubt it , She has not figured out that her unhappyness is comming from within.
