First and formost, my H has to admit that there is a OW and bring her out of hiding. Everyone knows, they are only fooling themselves. But so far he has not admitted to anyone that I know of.
When and if this happens he'll need good luck because both D's won't want anything to do with this woman that took their dad away and cause so much turmoil and pain in their lives. Their feelings not mine.
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!