About 3 weeks. Up until this weekend it seemed to not be working. At least to get anything from H. For me and the girls it is so much more peaceful for us. Probably easier for us all to deal with. No confrontations, no hurt from H.
Friday night I went out and he knew it. He called my phone 8-10 times. Wanting to know where I was, then went to accusations. I quit answering. He was out looking for me. Ended up coming here and threw a major drunken fit. I called the cops, he left b4 then got here.
My take on the deal: Wow!! Was really starting to believe he didn't care. He seen me before I left. Felt the reaction. I looked "good" and he seen that. Drove him crazy that I wouldn't say where I was. That he couldn't find me. Then for me not to answer his calls for once. Wow! Threw him over the edge. or OW was out of town?... If she'd had been home... He'd of went to her to drowned his feelings for me.
Don't know but regardless of what is was, why, or what happened. Maybe just maybe he does still care, he's noticed I've lost weight and look "good". And maybe he's second guessing his choices?...
Time will tell.....
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!