Hi Well we did a trial separation of two weeks and it when we sat to talk yesterday he said he needed more time. For some reason I was not expecting this. So of course I did all the wrong things. He ended up leaving mad. He says he loves me but is not in love with me. He is confused and does not know what he is going to do. I asked him straight out if he thought there was a chance of him coming home again and he would not say yes or no. He said he does not know. There is no OW I am sure of that. He is just confused.
After leaving mad yesterday I did not think I would see him again until tomorrow when we do the swap with our S. Anyway he showed up today with a lame excuse about something he had to do at home but our S was not here so he left after about 10 minutes but we did finish our talk from the night before.
We have agreed to stay separated as we have been the past several weeks. When he has made a decision he is going to let me know and we will sit down and talk about it then. I will not mention anything about our R until he does. I am sticking to it this time. It is just too painful when he does not want to talk.
Anyway my question is how should I act around him. We never really fought we just grew apart and he thinks we waited to long to try to fix it. He says he does not miss me yet but I know he can not after only 2 weeks apart. He is lonely that I can tell. Any suggestions on what I should do. Please I need help.
