Newcomer in Pain

[GainingStrength]

Sunny and BeingMe and Nikki: Thank You all so much!

I really need your kind words today, because it got worse after my posting this morning. I found out that W is bringing OM from the airport to the house (while I am out with the kids) for a nice overnight stay (with my D in the house). I'm supposed to bring the D back around 7 and drop her at the front door and then continue on with my S to our new apt. My S knows, so he is very unhappy. His mom did say this morning with some regret that "I've lost my son. He's gone." That's not slowing her down though, even with her family now split in two pieces.

My rhetorical question is, when does the cost of all this pain and family wreckage add up enough so that even the WAS finally figures out it is not worth it?

Larry