Don't think I have posted to your thread, but I had to respond this time. WTF!!!!!! (Sorry, but only this language will suffice.) Your W is in some kind of fantasyland, that's for sure. Does she imagine y'all will be one big happy family, with you as the family doormat!!!! How insensitive can anyone be?
My advice, for now, is go dark! Go darker than dark! Give her enough space to feel your absence, and time to go through the process of life with the OM, and getting to the point, hopefully, of the realisation that the grass ain't greener on the other side. It is seldom that an affair will last, and certainly rarely ends up happily ... ya can't build your own happiness on the backs of other's misery. You need to do the DB'ing stuff for your own sanity.
Take care!
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
