Hey MrsH, You know my story. H left and moved in with OW. Filed in 3/07 we went to court 6/07 and end of 6/07 H came to me at my daughters tball game and blurted out that he thought our M could work and we should try. Currently, we go to MC once a week, he is living back at home. It has only been 3 months but so far so good. I make sure that I stick to the changes I made while DBing...sometimes I can feel myself slipping but I am doing well. H has also made MAJOR changes and he is doing really well communicating with me! We have a court date of 10/1/07...at that point the D will be dismissed.
