I'm seeing light, now what?

[BeingMe]

I understand exactly what you mean, Phoenix! I still have no idea what to do, except for the letter I sent him about giving him space, and hope that he will do something once his job sitch is settled. Eventually, I will shake things up, and maybe that's where you're at? Time to do something different, that will grab her attention. I know what you mean about how easy it was to communicate in the early days ... we all do, I guess. It's like we were on the same frequency, and then we lost it.

It might be worth doing as Aud advises ... I tried it for a few months, and although we got closer, it didn't get him talking about his feelings, or anything, and he still (as he has done in the past) took me for granted. But, your W may react differently. It's not that I'm critical (way past that stage), or unloving, but I don't initiate anymore. I am floating along, and waiting for him to do something that will make me feel all of him is plugged into the M.

Anyway, hope your Labor Day weekend is going well.