Other thread locked up. No, I no longer talk to my ex-OM, and quite frankly I'm dead sick of talking about him. The ONLY time I ever even think about him is when people ask me about him on this forum.
And when people ask about why you continued to speak with him, you insist on digging your heels in and defending it with rationalization and justification. I bring this up because I believe that when someone refuses to learn from their mistakes, they are destined to repeat them. Based on the fact that you are defending an action which most certainly hurt your husband, you are in danger of doing the same thing again and again.
