Mojo In my opinion, the two hardest things to empathize with are the masculine desire to recharge in the cave or go to the cave when wounded and the masculine desire to "f*ck and flee."
MoJo I consider myself a cave recharger but not a F and flee person.
The first, cave recharging is a place where I can think things through and mentally practice some things that hopefully have good outcomes.
The second, F & flee, some "boys" do that to avoid responsibility, to be free to sample all of the wares available, and other reasons I don't know about. My line of thinking is, F so it happens again and is an exclusive R.
Not paying child support would be a deal breaker for me.
