This morning, my H shows up (alway unannounced) at the house and says that he wants to spend time with our 13S. I had just showered, and I was dressed in old raggedy clothes because I was just about to go do some yardwork. I heard him in the other room, so I ran to the back of the house and quickly threw on (hopefully) more attractive clothing, make-up, hair, etc.
Walked out to the kitchen all la-ti-dah like I was having a great day. 13S really wants to go on a big 8th grade trip to Washington DC & New York City, and I told him last night that I didn't think we'd be able to go, considering the current separation. H read the flyer for the trip today, and he was just about to walk away with it. I said S13 and I REALLY want to go, and he said that he wanted to go there, too. This trip isn't until next summer, but he gave me the impression that we'd all go there together.
Hmmm... If he was REALLY planning on D, or future w/live-in OW, why would he plan a *family* trip like that so far in advance, PLUS the $$$$ investment in tickets, etc.?
The last few times I talked to him, I was pretty cold/edgy, but from now on I'm going to be bubbly, happy with myself, and GAL!
BTW, someone said spouses move in w/OP because they're in *transition.* Can someone please explain what that means in DB?
So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.” - Matthew 19:6
