Thanks Sara! I don't ever wish my W has to go through suffering like that, especially I've caused enough pain as it is. But I think this little time apart is probably good for both of us. Hopefully it helps her deal with her own issues (self confidence and etc) in addition the the resentment and anger. And it should help me work on not basing my whole world on her. I should be responsible for my own happiness. I need to straighten out myself and feel like only she can give me happiness, so our M can go in a healthy direction when we get back.
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.